To me, growing up means having to take care of one’s responsibilities; caring about the cost one’s actions asks of others. I can tell when we talk that you are there- as much as one can be, imperfect creatures as we all are. Stay safe and peaceful.
p.s. growing up is also making sure you keep sight of what is best for you in the long run. the weighing of how choices affect others and ourselves at the same time, finding that balance, i think that’s growing up